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2012/04/19 01:12:38 (permalink)

A serious question*

There's been a lot of things going on around here of late, and OK, I get that artistic types can be a bit on the sensitive side....

But it seems to me at times people have gotten a little bit emotionally over-involved in what, in the grand scheme of things, were little issues from my POV.

So the question - When stressed I have these beautiful pieces of wood with various configurations of strings on them lying around here that can I pick up plug in. And I find that for me it can often be rather effective in relieving stress.

Does this work for others as well?




*Answers that are not particularly serious are welcome (and in fact encouraged) here if that's where your inspiration leads you.

 In order, then, to discover the limit of deepest tones, it is necessary not only to produce very violent agitations in the air but to give these the form of simple pendular vibrations. - Hermann von Helmholtz, predicting the role of the electric bassist in 1877.
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 01:22:51 (permalink)
Yes.  They definitely would be if they weren't in storage waiting for me to find a place to live.

 
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 01:24:56 (permalink)
I feel for you, my friend.

 In order, then, to discover the limit of deepest tones, it is necessary not only to produce very violent agitations in the air but to give these the form of simple pendular vibrations. - Hermann von Helmholtz, predicting the role of the electric bassist in 1877.
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 03:29:31 (permalink)
Yes. It helps. At the moment most of the projects I'm involved in are stalled outside of my control (and I've decommissioned the app called NagBap).

Maybe it's time for me to do another cover tune.
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 03:30:42 (permalink)
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Yes.  They definitely would be if they weren't in storage waiting for me to find a place to live.

That is a major bummer, I know. I was that way for nearly all of 2003.
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 07:21:09 (permalink)
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There's been a lot of things going on around here of late, and OK, I get that artistic types can be a bit on the sensitive side....

But it seems to me at times people have gotten a little bit emotionally over-involved in what, in the grand scheme of things, were little issues from my POV.

So the question - When stressed I have these beautiful pieces of wood with various configurations of strings on them lying around here that can I pick up plug in. And I find that for me it can often be rather effective in relieving stress.

Does this work for others as well?




*Answers that are not particularly serious are welcome (and in fact encouraged) here if that's where your inspiration leads you.

How about a serious take that deals with your intro moreso than your question? To some people (namely me) this forum is a way of a social life...sad to say. I work so much, forums are all I have when I take a break. That said, to many people that post, it's text on a screen. They can say whatever they want and just turn off the pc while laughing at the negativity they may have caused a person.
 
To me, there's another human being there and if they insulted me on the street, I'd treat them exactly the way I treat them on the forum. When I shut my pc off, the text doesn't go away. The image of the person that attempted to act like a tough guy behind the screen and what they said remains. Sorry, it's not that easy for me to forget like it is for others. I am what I am.
 
The day people start talking in text the way they would in person is the day all forums become better places. Until that time, the things you or others feel aren't really important, will remain important to some people and they should be respected if that's the case. Why can't people just talk on here the way they would to someone in real life?
 
As for the wood with strings thing...I wish it could solve frustration for me, but it's a way of musically communicating and doesn't really take the place of head-butting or round-housing someone who acted like a complete douchebag on a forum. Sadly, my punching bag doesn't even work anymore.
 
To many, I'm considered as "taking the forum too seriously". So be it..please respect me for treating the forum and it's members the way I would if I was standing there talking right to your face. Clean up the part where people feel they can say anything they want on a forum without thinking of another persons feelings and all the drama we see on here goes away.
 
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 07:46:42 (permalink)
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drewfx1


There's been a lot of things going on around here of late, and OK, I get that artistic types can be a bit on the sensitive side....

But it seems to me at times people have gotten a little bit emotionally over-involved in what, in the grand scheme of things, were little issues from my POV.

So the question - When stressed I have these beautiful pieces of wood with various configurations of strings on them lying around here that can I pick up plug in. And I find that for me it can often be rather effective in relieving stress.

Does this work for others as well?




*Answers that are not particularly serious are welcome (and in fact encouraged) here if that's where your inspiration leads you.

How about a serious take that deals with your intro moreso than your question? To some people (namely me) this forum is a way of a social life...sad to say. I work so much, forums are all I have when I take a break. That said, to many people that post, it's text on a screen. They can say whatever they want and just turn off the pc while laughing at the negativity they may have caused a person.
 
To me, there's another human being there and if they insulted me on the street, I'd treat them exactly the way I treat them on the forum. When I shut my pc off, the text doesn't go away. The image of the person that attempted to act like a tough guy behind the screen and what they said remains. Sorry, it's not that easy for me to forget like it is for others. I am what I am.
 
The day people start talking in text the way they would in person is the day all forums become better places. Until that time, the things you or others feel aren't really important, will remain important to some people and they should be respected if that's the case. Why can't people just talk on here the way they would to someone in real life?
 
As for the wood with strings thing...I wish it could solve frustration for me, but it's a way of musically communicating and doesn't really take the place of head-butting or round-housing someone who acted like a complete douchebag on a forum. Sadly, my punching bag doesn't even work anymore.
 
To many, I'm considered as "taking the forum too seriously". So be it..please respect me for treating the forum and it's members the way I would if I was standing there talking right to your face. Clean up the part where people feel they can say anything they want on a forum without thinking of another persons feelings and all the drama we see on here goes away.
 
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 07:52:35 (permalink)
I've been taking to blatting away on my sax....it do the trick!!

The space you have will always be exceeded in direct proportion to the amount of stuff you have...Thornton's Postulate.

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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 14:16:06 (permalink)
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drewfx1


There's been a lot of things going on around here of late, and OK, I get that artistic types can be a bit on the sensitive side....

But it seems to me at times people have gotten a little bit emotionally over-involved in what, in the grand scheme of things, were little issues from my POV.

So the question - When stressed I have these beautiful pieces of wood with various configurations of strings on them lying around here that can I pick up plug in. And I find that for me it can often be rather effective in relieving stress.

Does this work for others as well?




*Answers that are not particularly serious are welcome (and in fact encouraged) here if that's where your inspiration leads you.

How about a serious take that deals with your intro moreso than your question? To some people (namely me) this forum is a way of a social life...sad to say. I work so much, forums are all I have when I take a break. That said, to many people that post, it's text on a screen. They can say whatever they want and just turn off the pc while laughing at the negativity they may have caused a person.
 
To me, there's another human being there and if they insulted me on the street, I'd treat them exactly the way I treat them on the forum. When I shut my pc off, the text doesn't go away. The image of the person that attempted to act like a tough guy behind the screen and what they said remains. Sorry, it's not that easy for me to forget like it is for others. I am what I am.
 
The day people start talking in text the way they would in person is the day all forums become better places. Until that time, the things you or others feel aren't really important, will remain important to some people and they should be respected if that's the case. Why can't people just talk on here the way they would to someone in real life?
 
As for the wood with strings thing...I wish it could solve frustration for me, but it's a way of musically communicating and doesn't really take the place of head-butting or round-housing someone who acted like a complete douchebag on a forum. Sadly, my punching bag doesn't even work anymore.
 
To many, I'm considered as "taking the forum too seriously". So be it..please respect me for treating the forum and it's members the way I would if I was standing there talking right to your face. Clean up the part where people feel they can say anything they want on a forum without thinking of another persons feelings and all the drama we see on here goes away.
 
-Danny


I agree (and, unfortunately maybe?, this is about how I do talk with people in "real" life...).

 
Time for all of you to head over to Beyond My DAW!
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 14:21:04 (permalink)
Guitarists don't like it when I work out frustrations with a stick with strings on it.  When I'm done, it's usually lots of sticks with strings hanging all over the place.
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 14:27:09 (permalink)
Remind me not to invite you over.

 In order, then, to discover the limit of deepest tones, it is necessary not only to produce very violent agitations in the air but to give these the form of simple pendular vibrations. - Hermann von Helmholtz, predicting the role of the electric bassist in 1877.
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 15:53:22 (permalink)
Simple rule for me - practice what you preach.  If you want everything light, stay light.  If you don't want confrontation. don't be confrontational - it tends to be our overreactions that people have problems with and not our demonstrated past behaviors.  

Don't get me wrong, sometimes an ass is just an ass no matter how they behave, but I hope everyone can judge for themselves and react appropriately.  Also of note, even a friend can act like an ass sometimes, it's no reason not to stay friends with them.  But it's also not a reason to never point it out.   If their friends, they'll understand.

Back to the original topic - I do find music to be extremely helpful in times of stress.  My wife and dogs are pretty good at bringing a smile to my face as well.



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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 16:38:58 (permalink)
Dogs.  Yeah, that's the ticket.  Mine used to flick her nose under my arm when I'd get overly pissed off, as if to say "Nope, you're going to stop what you're doing and pay attention to the dog for a while".  Maybe we should call this the "Dog House"...

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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 16:54:11 (permalink) ☄ Helpful
Stress, what stress? Stress isn't somebody criticizing your POV in a chat room. Stress is when your mother dies a slow, painful death as cancer eats her insides before your eyes. Music was my salvation then, and remains so today, 20 years later.


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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 16:58:57 (permalink)
Stress?

What be that critter when I'm having a cat up here cuddled up between my arms purring away...


@Bitflipper...I've been there as well...or Leukemia treatments done ....
post edited by trimph1 - 2012/04/19 17:00:25

The space you have will always be exceeded in direct proportion to the amount of stuff you have...Thornton's Postulate.

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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 17:27:15 (permalink)
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Stress, what stress? Stress isn't somebody criticizing your POV in a chat room. Stress is when your mother dies a slow, painful death as cancer eats her insides before your eyes. Music was my salvation then, and remains so today, 20 years later.

Dave, once again you provide much needed perspective.

I too lost my mother to cancer a few years back. It wasn't quite so slow though. A couple different types came and were "gone" over a 2 year period before the final one was diagnosed. Then she was gone something like 6 weeks later, with it rapidly and inevitably advancing the whole while. It's quite an odd feeling when you start mourning someone before they're actually gone.

 In order, then, to discover the limit of deepest tones, it is necessary not only to produce very violent agitations in the air but to give these the form of simple pendular vibrations. - Hermann von Helmholtz, predicting the role of the electric bassist in 1877.
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 17:29:26 (permalink)
Alzheimer's is similar.  You lose the person before you lose the body.  Music, writing, painting, etc. can be very restorative.
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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 17:31:59 (permalink)
I lost my mother suddenly in September 2011 and her husband (my step father of 3 years) in June of 2012.

I personally went spiritually, morally and financially bankrupt in 2002.

Today I make music with people I enjoy.

'Nuff said.

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Re:A serious question* 2012/04/19 17:51:10 (permalink)
I was in pain for years from 2005 to 2010, cost me 2 jobs as I could not perform properly and didn't know why. Doctors refused to scan me and told me it was IBS. Finally diagnosed with bowel cancer 2010 when I nearly died from a tumour related bowelblockage and was admitted as an emergency, hours from death. (I really would not be so crass as to exaggerate this). Survived op. Said my prayers with my family, held my 2 young adult sons hands and had them kiss me on the face for the first time since they were kids as I went in for a second operation that lasted 8 hours and had me sign off to a 7.5% mortality in the theatre. Had them kiss me again when I came through. Had chemotherapy for 6 months, 3rd operation when more shadows appeared on scans which turned out to be dead fatty tissue. Got all clear 4th December 2011, my partner, cancer nurse and I all in tears in a group hug.

Still no job, hard to explain to potential employers what I have been doing these last few years. In the middle of all this my partner lost her well paid job too.

That's stress... and you know what, I'm still smiling and grateful for every day on this beautiful world.

Forum shenanigans - pffft...........


Music was and is my therapy and my salvation...
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