Audio FX, parallel input

Hi.
As old dub head, I am used to have the following constellation:
The sounds of an instrument are usually "dry" in my track. Now I wish that once in a while the sounds do to a heavy delay (for example) for one beat, but the delay shall sound on while the instrument plays on "dry", so the delay sounds mix with the dry instrument. 
When I use any effects "input", the entire instrument sound will be dimmed and will only have usual volume when I have the effect. But I do not wish to have the instrument muted when there is no effect. 
In Audio Mulch I can insert in the sound flow an additional bus parallel to the dry signal, and when I open the bus it will send the signal to the FX (delay, reverb, or whatsoever), so the sounds from that FX will sound on while the dry signal goes on unchanged.
How, please, can I construct such a chain in Sonar? The FX chain in Sonar has the same unwanted effect on the instrument sound as if I was only using the input knob of the FX in Sonar.
I am sure in Sonar there are better options that get me to the sound I wish to create.
Thankx for updating me.

Pre-fader sends can be very useful in this situation as well, they allow an effect on the linked aux channel to operate completely independendently of the audio tracks fader. Again, automate stuff as required.

Must come back to this one again, as I keep struggeling where Sonar does write the automation data of the effects. I can't find those automation tracks. The thing is, you record the automation data, but in some cases you wish to edit those (been too late with the knob, or too much in-/output etc.), but I can't find them. I'd have supposed the automation data is written beneath a track with the name of the send.... I am doing something wrong, it seems.

Thankx, Mr. KingsMix:
Yes I thought so, but I can't find it in the mix... 
Ok, the construction is: From the MIDI track I have the instrument track with some AudioFX. Then I have a SEND for short time FX (like a delay that switches in like in good old dub music.) Now I am looking for that automation lane for that FX in the send. 
One more issue in this thread: Is there a VST-bridge in Sonar, enabling 32-bit plugins in a 64-bit surrounding, please? And if not, any recommendations?
Seems in my mix, I may not use one delay plugin in multiple instances. There is a fine bluetube delay I'd wish for the rhythm guitar, but I'd love to use the same for the horn section, but (naturally) independently from the guitar.

Thankx, of course I can add any automation lane.
Here I have an image of 2 screenshots. You see I inserted BluTube Vintage Oilcan Echo for the horns, in the upper image. You see I activated recording automation. (I was successful at recording automation in this instance.)
In the lower picture you see where I'd have supposed to see the automation lanes for the BlueTube Echo. But thy aren't there. I cannot locate them.
By the way, when I tried to record the automation data a second time, Sonar crashed, I could not save the new data :-\
 

 
https://goo.gl/photos/3jPAjEXZLQ2YBZKo8
 
Here I try again, it seems, the web site designer dislikes screenshots. I cannot upload it directly, but placing a link doesn't seem to work either.
But try right-click on the icon, choose "open in new tab". For me, that works. Or do I need to have another place to upload images? I am using "Google photos"...
Otherwise try the link I pasted in beneath that icon. 
I appreciate you are following up. 

Thanks again, 
that is what I had been trying to do. You see in the lower picture, I only get automatisation referring to the send, but not to the FX I had placed in that send. I just tried again right now. Sorry.
But after going through the mix again and again, I got all the preset changes recorded, before Sonar crashed again for unknown reason, and without preparing another error message file. (And I even had installed the new update today before resuming my work.)

To get an automation lane, I should have the bus in the track list, right? I do not see it there, only in the mixing desk view. There, I do not seem to find any opportunity to add an automation lane. Please see the lower  one of my 2 images I posted earlier. I see the bus send in the track list, but the automation lanes there do not refer to the FX I activated in the send / bus.
Sorry, I must be a harrass not to grasp what you are trying to tell me.

Yeah! That's it now. Little arrow, big effect. 
Thankx a lot!

You should probably start a new thread with the appropriate title to get more rapid response to your last question.