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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/15 12:34:55
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UbiquitousBubba Beagle 57Gregy It's wonderful!* You'll never have to cook a meal again. You'll never have to clean again. You get "special treatment" every night, and sometimes in the day, too! There's always someone there to help you pick out your next expensive piece of hardware or software. She'll love your new Corvette. * I've heard. I've never been married. I was engaged once but she came to her senses before the deed was done. Thank goodness! Greg! WAKE UP MAN!!!! YOU'RE DREAMING ABOUT YOUR MOM AGAIN!!! Harshified... Ewww... that is harsh.
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/15 13:42:27
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All these touching testimonials in response to the OP's theme. But there's this ... A thrice-married comedian once quipped: the next time I feel like getting married, I'm just going to find some woman who hates me and buy her a house!
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/15 17:44:59
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Marriage is like a rose. There are thorns involved.
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/16 09:48:38
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Mooch4056 I am 42 and finally getting married August 25 ..as you all know.... So what's it like? Will my life be complete? Like in the movies? I don't remember the comedian, but I am reminded of this line! "They say a man is not complete until he's married! Once he's married - he's finished!" 23 years and counting for me... and I wouldn't change a thing!
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/16 10:08:42
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Mooch4056 Will my life be complete? Like in the movies? Yes, it will be just like the movies! If you were thinking of "The Shining". Seriously, marriage rocks, if you're willing to put in the effort. And that would include: - Honesty is very important.
- Always keep those lines of communication open - nothing causes more trouble than secrets, even little ones.
- Learn what is important to your spouse.
- Help out around the house! Among the spouses/parents my wife and I know, I apparently am the only husband who helps with the laundry!
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/16 10:24:40
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And if you ever get into a disagreement about anything, there are two strategies: 1) Let her think she is winning or 2) Let her win
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/16 11:23:31
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space_cowboy And if you ever get into a disagreement about anything, there are two strategies: 1) Let her think she is winning or 2) Let her win is this marriage advice or advice to fellow forum members regarding posting replies to someone who doesn't listen?
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/16 17:14:49
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It is about 70% giving and 30% taking no matter which side you are on. Marriage is a process of working out differences and a process of falling in love. (That stuff in the beginning is lust and it fades away.) Bottom line marriage is great if both parties realize it is NOT about feelings and/or being happy. It is a commitment, a covenant that both should agree will not be broken, no matter what... excepting physical abuse and physical endangerment... most other things can sand should be worked through. I've been married once, for 34 years now. When we got married we had a discussion and agreed that divorce was not going to be an option, a word we would never use or recognize... and it has served a purpose because there are good times and bad times. Hopefully the good will outweigh the bad and love will grow. ...and FWIW, I care. Again, marriage is giving and keeping your word... when you want to and when you don't want to... it is something you promise to do and then you do no matter how you feel because one thing is certain, feelings change and then they change again. Rely on how you feel and you are doomed, rely on keeping your promise and you'll make it and it will turn out good. That is what I think... (now, I hope this isn't some silly joke thread since I have not read it yet). Julien
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/16 17:24:13
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I haven't read all the comments but here's mine. From experience and observation, I would never again put myself in a position to be hurt. that is all. I truly wish you the best.
I harbor no ill will towards any man.
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/20 22:09:41
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/20 22:54:47
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Congrats, Mooch! I'm very happy for you. I'm afraid all your problems won't be solved by getting married, but I hope you bring each other tons of happiness and togetherness. :-)
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/20 22:56:02
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"We can't do anything to change the world until capitalism crumbles. In the meantime we should all go shopping to console ourselves" - Banksy
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/20 23:01:14
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/20 23:25:03
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Time for all of you to head over to Beyond My DAW!
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/20 23:32:40
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Perhaps. Or just being silly. :)
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/20 23:38:10
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julibee Marriage mellows and deepens with time.... And you don't even realize it's happening. It starts with wild, gaudy and loud fireworks that eventually morph and fade into a quieter candlelight. Nicely put, Jules. Donna and I will be 15 years this June. There was a time when a split seemed eminent, but we realized it would leave a void that would make the Grand Canyon seem like a tiny scratch. We got past that. When we lost the house and made our move to Texas, it was a huge leap of faith. It was just us (with a little help from our friends  ) On a side note, we arrived in Fort Worth three years ago today. We have entire conversations without saying a word( drives the kids nuts) We still hold hands. The fireworks are easy. The true test is keeping that candle lit. Best wishes, Paul, and may the candle continue to burn.
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Re:What's it like to be married?
2012/05/20 23:58:27
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I envy you Julibee. I'm not sure that's the right word. I'm glad for you!
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