im not really understanding this all to well either, but when at all practical,
simply insert your synth and on the synth property's menu, select all outputs out stereo.
this will allow you to have each drum on a separate track for better control over solo and mute functions.
I set up all my drum synths this way, as it allows you to EQ, Compress, Add FX to the track for each kit piece in sonar, rather than using your Drum synths track channels.
similar to the way its set up in this video:
ignore the triggering and watch the way each outputs are laid out.