Bob Katz recommends C-weighting. A-weighting is designed for measuring industrial noise levels, not reference monitors.
But if you use band-limited pink noise as Bob recommends (rolling off below 500Hz so you're essentially ignoring low frequencies when measuring), then your SPL meter will read the same with either A- or C-weighting, since both curves are the same above 500 Hz.
If 78 dB has worked well for you so far, stick with that. 77 dB is what I use, chosen not by any scientific criteria but just because it's a comfortable level I can listen to for a long time without fatigue, and comparable to the level I like to listen to music at normally.
I strongly believe that mixing at a
consistent level is far more important than any specific loudness. Your brain will adapt to whatever level you choose, as long as it's comparing apples to apples day-to-day.