There is an easy work around in terms of summing to mono. A simple but effective one is to make a stereo to mono adaptor built right into a stereo headphone plug. Rather than short out L and R to form a mono mix hot outputs
(I would not do that) you could connect two very small 100 ohm resistors to the ring and tip of a headphone plug and then connect the other two ends together to form the summing mix. Connect the hot heat of a single core shielded cable to the junction of these resistors and the earth to the sleeve of course. You will need to insulate the junction of the 100 ohm resistors that is in order to prevent that from shorting to ground. With care you can fit all that inside a decent sized stereo 6.5 mm headphone plug.
(Use small 1/4 watt resistors helps) The 100 ohm resistors prevent the headphone driver amp output impedance (which will be very low BTW) of one channel from putting too much load on the other etc.. It just isolates them nicely. The headphone driver amp is seeing a 100 ohm load on both channels which it would be very happy with.
There is always some spare headphone output somewhere either on an interface or digital mixer in my case that is not often used which is perfect for generating a nice mono signal. There will usually be a level control associated with it too. There is enough gain available there to drive any amp well.
Any small single channel amp or one channel of any discarded stereo amp will suffice too feeding the small mono speaker.
(Some older HI FI amps had a mono switch on them and if that is the case you won’t need the summing resistors. Do it in the amp instead) Actually I have got three small mono speakers connected to an old hi fi amp. One is in front of me and the other two are set up in front of my keyboards on both sides. That way when I am facing either keyboard setup (away from my normal stereo pair) I have got a small mono speaker giving me a mono mix so I can just hear the main mix better everywhere I turn. I have got ON/OFF switches on all three mono speakers so I can turn them off at will. Most of the time they are off but when I want to hear the one directly in front I just flick the switch and it comes on and then I just turn the main stereo pair down. Having switches on the other two for me allows me to shut them off when I am checking mono mixes directly in front.
I love the sound of everything coming out of just one small speaker. I like to sit (quite close) and look directly in front of it too so both ears are the same distance to it. It does not have to be very loud either. When the sound is coming from a single point source like that there is no mono confusion. It IS better than two speakers in mono.
I like the fact the sound gets louder when things are panned centre and a little softer when panned to extremes. It is possible even after setting up a full stereo mix to check the mono speaker again and the sounds that are hard panned might be a little soft in the mono speaker. Then you can just tweak them slightly in the stereo mix. They won't change there much but will in the mono speaker. It is possible to satisfy the stereo mix on your main pair and the small mono speaker at the same time with a little tweaking.
I find after spending time fiddling and getting a great stereo mix sounding great on a mono speaker when I turn that all up loud on the main speakers the mix is usually close to perfect and amazing.
I agree with
sharke too in that starting with a complete mono mix and just getting it sounding great in the mono speaker is a great place to start before panning and applying stereo effects etc...