Hi,
Even though I do not play keyboards or the bass regularly, in general, music has always been around me. Grandfather on the mother side was a well known Portuguese composer for piano, by the name of Armando Leca. It was in his house that I got interested in music and mom got me a music teacher and put me on the piano. That teacher was a massive witch and didn't like music, and used to spend her time rapping your fingers and knuckles with a heavy ruler!
Father had a large collection of record albums of classical music ... it's still there in Santa Barbara, but badly tendered and handled. Classical music covering 1000 years easily and very well. He liked Mozart and Beethoven. I liked Stravinsky and rock music! Why rock music? Because it did with music and feelings what classical music was missing in experience. Unlike a lot of fake opera-like stuff, rock music had more attitude and truth to it, than most opera stories, and made more sense. It simply has never been accepted as a serious and important method of music ... but it will in the next 50 to 100 years.
I don't aspire to be a virtuoso. For me, hearing it is enough, and I do not have to duplicate it ... but it is neat when I am dreaming, that on the side someone says ... we need music in there ... and voila ... the director adds a piece of music to the whole thing.
On the family side, of 9 children, one of my sisters played Harp with the Santa Barbara Symphony, but I think that she gave up music ... she's too idealistic and opinionated to hang around music and musicians, I thought, and not patient enough. She was good and should have taken her music to jazz or rock so she didn't get bored. I always thought that what she wanted was the freedom to express, and she couldn't do that in the classical context ... most of which does not have any harp material worth discussing! She did hear Alan Stivell, and had his first album before I did ... so she was aware that more could be done with the music, but I think she gave up.
I'm the only one into music all the way. Live and die by it. It's my soundtrack and I am its soundtrack.
Who chose who?
I don't know! I just know what I see inside my head! And it has music!