Thanks to everyone that responded. I never meant to imply this or that was wrong or right, I just wanted to know what people were up to these days.
I'm mostly a guitar player/singer, but I like that SONAR lets me explore bigger arrangements than I could by myself live. I have some nice mics, but I would like to add a better mic pre to capture vocals and acoustic guitars. As much as I love my tube amps, recording them in an apartment is a challenge.
Like many, it seems like a combination of hardware and software will be what I end up with.
With some good mics and a good preamp, hopefully I can take it from there in software.
I'm interested to explore what seems to be 3(!) amp sims I have handy in lieu of real amps.
SPLAT comes with an awesome array of VST's, and I have some Waves to mix it up.
When it comes to other instruments, SPLAT provides a wealth as well. I'll keep the POD XT, Roland JV, and M-One handy just in case...