In order to move past failure and and prepare for success, one must be willing to face one's problems and admit one's failures. For example, consider how George Lucas moved past the Star Wars Christmas Special. Ok, that may not be a good example. Consider how Bill Gates dealt with Microsoft Bob.
Ok. In order to move past failure and prepare for sucess, one must ignore the existence of any problems and deny one's failures.
For this reason, I do not know myself at all.