My solution is a good old fashion formula.
Good guitar with good pups
Good tube amp
Some stomp boxes.
And I now am sold on my Blackstar amp too. It can be shut off in the room if I go direct. But I am a miked speaker person from way back.
In other words, I can easily get a great tone before I hit the record button, and important to me I can also play that live.
To me the sims are great for guitar players who are still experimenting with weird effects and tones and don't want to spend the money on the hardware. For me it has to be the hardware first.
I'm not against sims at all and I do sometimes add reverb, delay or a chorus to a recorded track via the effects bin. But they just don't cut it for me for using in real time. I'd need a much better CPU and interface. That's $500-$1,000 wasted for me. I'd rather spend that on hardware guitar tone.