As much as some people here would like this place to be a Utopia , I hate to break the news to a few of you …
It's not . For some of us , this little corner of the web and its community is about dealing with life on life's terms

2 years ago I went through a similar scenario as the OP ….
Bought a brand new computer , picked up a USB sound card for it , went from S 6 PE to X3 and then said WTF …
I happen to think the OP's actions speak louder than his words …
He spent a ton of money doing what he thought was the right thing by upgrading everything from his hardware to the most recent version of SONAR , then he found out a few frustrating things …
Why not back off and give the fella some room to get his bearings , the guy doesn't want to be fixed …
He just want's to be happy .
Kenny