So I tried NadIR and it works nicely. I am able to get what I want out of it.... it mixes any two IRs and I can directly navigate the file system to load IRs. Easy to use interface too. And Free... can't forget that! I was having some latency issues with it though. To be fair that might be because I remembered later that I forgot to turn off my WiFi adapter after downloading.
I also tried their tube power amplifier plugin... works kind of nice. A few weeks ago I built a stand-alone preamp that is the same circuit as the JTM45/Bassman (I build my own tube amps.) It sounds pretty decent routing
preamp->poweramp plugin->NadIR->ReMatrix (for reverb). The poweramp plugin lets me adjust presence, resonance, negative feedback level, tube type (6L6, EL34, KT88) and even the bias so you can simulate running them biased really hot without destroying any tubes ;-) Wish it had a 6V6 option, but hey it's pretty nice the way it is. Oh, and it's free too :-)