Paul P
It's usually pretty easy to see if a box has been opened or not. One time I told the salesman I wanted an opened box and he replied "it had to be opened to put the item inside".
I bought a camera once from a once respectful camera shop (back before I learned to look at what I was buying), and found the guarantee card in the box filled out by the previous buyer. I took it back, got a full refund, and never went back.
Your camera experience mirrors my monitor experience. The camera shops in NYC are cutthroat. They know every trick in the book and some that aren't in the book. They fleece the tourists like sheep going to the slaughter. It actually makes our business look good !
The most common tactic is to advertise really low prices for certain camera gear and then when the shopper arrives at the shop or tries to buy online they discover it's a gray market camera and doesn't come with a US warranty.
And of course they will gladly sell you the warranty for an extra fee which by some odd coincidence brings the price of the camera right up to the same level as other stores are selling it for.
Oldest trick in the book.
Best advice I can offer is thoroughly examine the box. Top, bottom and sides. If a local place, have them open it so you can examine the gear. Look at the screws that hold things together and make sure they aren't marked up, check the serial number against the warranty card and the sticker on the outside of the box. Use your nose to sniff for unusual smells, like burning odor etc. Make sure all accessories like rack ears etc are in the box.
If mail order, take pics of the outside of the box BEFORE you open it and if things don't look good call the company immediately and file a claim.
It's sad we have to be suspicious but sadly some people are dishonest and it's best to avoid them if possible.
Fortunately these people are the exception not the rule. Most businesses want to stay in business so they strive to be honest and fair.
Anyway, happy shopping!