I created a folder on my secondary drive for my custom kits for SD2. Use the Save Project in Superior, point SD2 to the folder that contains your custom drum kits, name the kit and save. You can load the kits from that folder as you choose.
I have individual folders for each drum library in the custom kits folder so it is very easy to find what I am looking for. As far as Splat and SD2 are concerned, Splat remembers the drum kit settings in the project but you will need to set a template if you are starting from scratch on a new project.
I use both methods but I always save my SD2 kit in my custom kit folder in case I ever need it again.