Thanks once again Steve.
I followed your advice, sort of, and here's what I did.
First I removed all pathways that where under the "Air Technologies" path.
Re scanned and of course still no Xpand
So when I went to move the dll?? as you recommend, it was no where to be found,, I had not noticed that it was missing and just assumed it was in the Xpand folder.
So I moved all the Xpand files to a new folder as a back up.
I then re-installed xpand and now the dll showed in the Stienberg VST folder.
Re scanned without adding any new pathways and it was found.
So the issue seemed to be that even though the installer was directed to the Stienberg VST folder, it didn't go there.
I had re installed xpand twice . So this is a case of a botched install that needed a clean slate to get it right.