LaszloZoltan
I don't think it costs anything to treat the op with respect and courtesy regardless of whatever suspicions or failings he/she may have. Irreverently making wisecracks over what for all we know is a sincere posting demeans us all. As in our real personal and professional lives, there is no justification to gang up and bully someone daring to voice a dissenting opinion.
This seems reasonable enough, but it's a bit optimistic. What if the failings of an OP are in fact a more or less total *lack* of respect and courtesy? What if it's plainly obvious, as it often is, that the OP is *not* sincere? Irreverent wisecracks can be demeaning, for sure, but this place would be dull as dishwater if it were only ever 100% safe and serious. Bullying and ganging up is absolutely not OK, but honestly I see very little of it here. I do see collective frustration with driveby posters and known trolls and alts of known trolls who seem to take pleasure from trashing Sonar and the forums, and sometimes vicious personal attacks. Those things are what seems, to me, to demean the place. I do see people blowing off a bit of steam about it sometimes, but I rarely ever see anything I'd describe as bullying. Maybe I have a thicker skin than others, I don't know.
If the culture were as the protesters say it is, relentlessly browbeating anyone who dares to dissent or say a bad word about Sonar, then I would have been gone a long time ago, as I have little patience for it and much better things to do. But I just don't see it. I do see a series of brand new members or members with no history of contributing, who insist it is the case, over and over, often apparently agreeing with themselves from alt logins, and that starts to get me down after a while. But I don't see the behaviour itself.