OK, this was my exact issue at first because that is one of the best features in FL Studio; the ability to lay down drum patterns and have them separated on different patterns. If I'm reading your post correctly. In Sonar, it can be done as well. You can use Session Drummer or if you have some other drum sampler. Load kit or samples into Session Drummer or Drum sampler of choice, activate step sequencer, draw out kick/snare pattern. Now here's the trick, in the top right corner of Session Drummer or Drum sampler of choice screen, there is an icon to activate step seq. each time you select the step seq icon it resets the pattern and you can add another sound; such as; hats, toms..etc. Now they will be on one track until you select the take lane icon and then all the different patterns will be displayed. I'm replying to this post at work, LOL, but when I can the chance, I will upload pics of the icons I am talking about in case you don't know where they are. The steps are really easy once you get the hang of it and could actually be more powerful and intuitive then Fl's step seq.