Yes, there have been a couple of threads regarding the Melodyne issue and the buffer setting warning. From what I recall (and I may be incorrect, so if someone else can remember please chime in), Melodyne themselves have been contacted and have stated that it is an issue they are aware of and most can ignore this. I used to get that exact same message all the time, never had an issue, although my buffers are set way lower than those asked for, and then one day it just went away and never came back. I thought it had been fixed by either Cakewalk or Melodyne.
I still get the odd crash where I cannot reopen Sonar without a reboot, but it's rare. I would like to think Cakewalk is working on this because those crashes, for me at least, are happening less. Also, I think the latest firmware and driver updates for my OctaCapture have had an impact on this (most of the time now I can just restart Sonar).
I'm not sure Cakewalk is entirely to blame for this issue. I think if Sonar were the "industry standard DAW" then this type of behaviour wouldn't be quite so prevalent. (Just a thought)