I get it but the unfortunate thing is that in tracks that have multiple Takes/Lanes that are creating a composite if you start editing in the Parent Track this is what happens. Especially with Ctrl All type maneuvers.
What I suggest is go through all these tracks and "Flatten" your comps before attempting Parent Track style editing like this. That way in the parent track you are dealing with one continuous clip instead of a composite. You're gonna need to unlock the Pos/Data option in that Flattened clip in the Take Lanes to make that happen. Also make sure none of the other clips in the hidden lanes exceed the boundaries of the flattened comp (so there are no splits visible at all in the Parent Track).
However the way I do this just to be ULTRA sure nothing wierd is going on in hidden lanes is create a new track and drag my final flattened comp into it then mute or archive the original track (just so I can raid it later if need be).
There is a lot of "avoiding" the comp features that needs to be done in the new system that requires knowing how comping works. It can be completely avoided altogether BUT to do that, since Cake has pretty much made all this the default workflow, you really gotta know how everything affects eveything else.
Mostly though I restrict my editing to lanes. It really avoids all shenanigans.
Not saying I like the fact that parent tracks are this futzy (it's the one problem I have with Comping) but it is what it is and the positives outweight the negatives IMO. It's just a little weird to get used to at first.
I hope that makes sense/helps.