Well, I can certainly understand the reason for this topic and thread .Yep, been wrestling with this one for a while .
I'm somewhat of a mental guy or a mental case depending on who you ask , so I use mental tools .
It's a given that my approach may not work for anyone else here on the forum , yet I will offer it anyway…..
Am I overwhelmed with all the features in SONAR that I don't know how to use ? YES
Does it get me down and make me feel stupid sometimes , or even all the time ? YES
Do I get any sort of comfort in knowing that I have the tools on hand even if I don't know how to use them yet ?
YES , knowing that I have the tools on hand does give me a sense of accomplishment for having acquired them ….
Am I gonna let all the pent up frustration I feel make me want to give up and quit Music ?
Hell effing NO , I didn't come this far to let that happen ..
What can I do ? …take baby steps
Why baby steps ? because people don't harass and beat up babies when they are trying to learn how to walk …
Are you serious ? Yes I am ….
What do you actually mean by baby steps ?
By taking baby steps it means I have to put myself in a state of mind where I willingly have to parent myself on one level, by putting myself in that state of mind I no longer have the need to beat myself up or hold it against myself that I'm gonna crash , burn and make a lot of mistakes as I learn my way around all the new features I don't have the slightest clue on how to use ….or learn .
OK , that sounds " suspiciously " reasonable , give me some examples of what you consider baby steps ….
Sure , to go there means we have to define a few characteristics and differences of the mind set between a baby and an adult …
A baby (and a young child ) possess a very clear mindset that is unencumbered by any number of learned bias's when they are young …they only know the moment , everything is pretty much new and exciting to them …
They have the capacity to soak up everything with each unfolding moment and their imaginations are not jaded by the world .Also they do not feel the boundaries of separation and everything is fresh and new to them …
except when they soil a diaper …
An Adult on the other hand may indeed have many resources and experiences that a baby may not have .
When it comes to learning new things an adult has to navigate around a couple of obstacles that may have imprisoned the adult ….
What the heck do you mean by that ?
As people mature and become adults , they develop some very strong opinions about things they may or may not like
( preferences / bias's ) , in many cases they rely more and more on filters they may have put in place when it comes to their ability to cope and learn new things in life … When confronted with learning something new Adults can be like a time traveler who is jumping across time comparing the new information they are trying to learn up against the accumulated knowledge they have stored over the years …
This can create a conflict of interest because what ends up happing is an adult may find it hard to shut off his or her coping and discernment filters when confronted with learning something new ….
What ends up happening in that scenario is the new knowledge can be there right under their nose , yet they do not have the capacity to learn it because they are no longer present in the moment ( like a baby would be )……
The adult ends up struggling because they are caught up in a multitude of distractions …
OK, What are some of these distractions you speak of ?
In my case I have had to do a little soul searching and I have found a number of sticking points that have hindered me in my process of learning the new features I'm looking to learn ….
A big stumbling block for me comes from the standpoint of my Ego . I can honestly admit that I don't know a whole lot about computers and recording using a DAW , but man , the old Ego want's to throw down a fight when I'm trying to learn something from somebody that my Ego has determined to be a threat to it …
Silly I know ,but thats a big one for me , it brings up the whole I thought I knew something and now I find out I didn't know squat about it at all ……for that one I have to practice principles over personalities / humble pie …
Another one is , I may have unreasonable expectations when it comes to learning something new regarding how long it may take to learn how to do it ….That one still keeps tripping me up . I just have to give time , time …
Yeah , theres more …I'm gonna stop for now …
Oddly enough , I learned how to do this sort of thing on guitar …
The bottom line for me is , I have to clear my head to forget what I think it is that I know and just try to emulate the ability to be like a baby to be able to soak up everything I can when I can find myself in that mind set …
Kenny
PS , Yeah , I know this one is coming from the Far Side

What's the point of trying to watch a video or read a tutorial if my body is there , yet my mind isn't ? …