You should read the first chapter of Marc Mozart's
Your Mix Sucks. I'm posting this here, because it sent me on a mission to find an old, 1980's boom box. There's a few things to seriously consider when working with monitors, some ideas I agree with, while others, I don't.
1) Use as full-range a set of monitors as you can when critically listening. However, when making mixing decisions, especially around spacing, panning, levels, etc. use a cheap-o boom box at a very low volume. Get your mix sounding great there, first. Then bring up the mix on your high-end monitors.
2) Be sure you have a GOOD sub, if you need one. Those cheap, bundled subs you get with a sound-bar are not ideal, and I strongly encourage not using them. X-over the sub with your monitors as best you can. You should not be able to localize the sub.
3) Listen, listen, listen to pro mixes you like on your speakers that you use in your room, and at the level you intend to mix at, not the loud levels you want to dissect. Even if you are in your room listening, don't think you have to sit in one position. Walk around. Stand up behind your chair, on the floor, etc. Do other things than just listen. Let your sub-conscious mind listen. Eventually, it will become second nature to know what sounds good and what doesn't.
4) I do recommend
testing your mixes on many systems, but not
mixing on many systems. Get it right on a couple of of sets of speakers, not 10. But get it right on what you have. If it's not right, try different listening levels, or even better,
5) Pay a mixing engineer to sit in with you on a session and make some recommendations on your mix. He/she might be able to immediately offer some advice that will help you tons...no, I mean TONS!!
6) I use a set of 1st-Gen Mackie HR824's, a set I won at a Mackie d8b seminar, over a decade ago. I use them for nearly everything except integrity checks. I don't know if I would have bought them, if I were shopping, but they sound pretty good for their size (not totally flat, btw, as the pedigree states). I also do some listening on a set of Polk Audio SRS-SDA 2.3TL speakers powered by a Pass-X350. With that said, I just purchased an old 1980's Realistic boom box, which I am excited (for the first time ever) to listen to that piece of ______. But I know it will help my mixes!
Best of luck!
Footnote: Many would argue that the Yamaha NS-10 speakers (with tissue over the tweeters) were the original "truth" monitors. OMG, they sound
terrible. Needless to say, I have a set of the NS-10 Studios. Even those sound pretty horrid. So, the best monitors may not tell the truth. Some crappy ones will be more honest, perhaps.