I'm not sure what's going on here... Though I haven't done a lot of midi work these last few months it is possible something has changed for the worse as does my memory...
It might be a nice feature (maybe a feature request would be nice here?) to enable individual lanes to be accessed in PRV...
I think I remember finding that to isolate which overlaying midi clips to see in PRV, required setting sonar to hide muted clips (midi track) then selecting the clips I wish included in the view by muting those I did not wish to see... And it worked fine.
Under the View command I believe are options for how midi data is displayed in as much as handles, separate controller panes and the like...?