bapu
I used to tell my kids "Thought thought he sat on the toilet but he didn't".
I try my best to remember that when I "think" I understand what someone else is saying I verify with them that we are saying the same thing.
My Dad once gave me a copy of a quote that i have always cherished... I think it applies here and I hope you enjoy it too!
"I know you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant..."
Keni