I figured it out...for others - go to cakewalk.com, log in and then choose <Products>-->(View your Products)
Up near the top should be your Addictive Drums Solo product, click on it and copy the Product Key.
Now open the XLN Online Installer and select <Register Product>, select Online Web Shop and paste your product key into the white box. Click <Register Product Key> and then you will get an option to select an ADpak, a MIDI Pk, and a Kitpiece Pak.