If the clips are already in sync with the timeline, and the project has tempo changes, stretching clips is just going to foul things up. The Tempo Offset buttons went away because they were only compatible with pure MIDI projects using direct-monitored hardware synths. Having any audio in the project, including the audio metronome would disable them.
SONAR does not have a built-in function for scaling a tempo map. Below is a workaround I've posted before. It's awkward because you have to work in SMPTE time. Also you should avoid trying to scale only part of the project; IIRC, there are issues with the way SONAR handles that.
1. Enable autostretch (a.k.a. Clip Follows Project) on any audio clips.
2. Select a MIDI or audio clip that runs the length of the project.
3. Go to Process > Fit to Time.
4. Convert the current Thru time to total frames.
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Divide that by the desired factor (e.g. 1.10 to get a 10% increase, 0.90 for a 10% decease).
6. Round and convert that new value to minutes:seconds:frames.
7. Enter that as the new Thru, and select Modify by Changing: Tempo Map.
8. Click OK.