first, make sure you are using the mic correctly,
the old mic has to be pointed at the ceiling,
the new mic has to be pointed at the center spot between the two monitors.
now, setup a 'reference' song.....
once you re-measure your ARC, (make sure you are at 48khz), set your playback volume of your monitors
(i find 75 db to be just right for me)
set up a "new tune", and name it something like "Reference Songs", and pull in several of your favorite pro recordings;
line them all up on top of each other, and mute them all but one...
use the fader for each stereo track and set them so that the softest song is at ZERO, and everything else gets the fader moved down to match the volume of the softest one (there are other better ways to do this, but this is the fastest),
this puts all the playback of your 'reference' tracks at the same volume.
do this to each song, til they all have the same playback volume, muting all but one as you go along.
this way, when you play them back, you can pick and chose individual songs to reference on the fly.
i pull in hard rock, soft rock, jazz, acoustic stuff, classic rock modern, etc.
then apply the ARC vst on the mains.
setup the 'FLAT' target curve setting as a start point.
then playback all of your favorite reference songs thru arc, one by one, and look for similarities and anomalies.
now, in ARC, you have the ability to setup CUSTOM eq settings;
chose custom 1,
and start to build your own custom curve, based on what you know from the playback of known pro mixes thru your monitor system in your room (you should know these songs well enough to know that you are hearing good translation and recognize frequency issues from the room):
then, toggle the correction on, off, on, back and forth, as your tweak your custom eq curve.
eventually, you'll get a better end result that stands up across more playback system than simply taking the 'FLAT" target curve it lays on you.