Don't give up, we can help you.
First some information for you about posting pictures.
To stop spam the forum software won't allow you to post pictures until you have made 25 posts so we can't see any pictures.
You can't paste a picture only the link to a picture so it must be hosted somewhere else, for example Photobucket or some such picture hosting service. Create a link and then paste the link into your post.
In the meantime I just want to check that you have Sonar's VST scanner looking at the folder where the EzDrummer.dll is located. The scanning paths can be set in 2 locations. Preferences>VST settings or in the Plugin Manager under Options.
Are you a novice user unfamiliar with Sonar or is the whole audio recording process foreign to you. Just so we know how to approach helping you.
What audio interface do you have? What is your operating system etc. if you have a look you'll notice that many users have a brief list of their computer and audio specifications in their signature. See my signature.