Isn't the point of the sonarworks plugin that you create your song and mix into them as you go along, rather than listen to a finished product?
The plugin will flatten out the frequencies of what it hears to the amount dictated by your headphone "preset" calibration.
If you play a finished master with a very intentional bass heavy feel, the plugin would flatten it out.
The only songs that will sound exactly as you mixed them will be songs that you mixed through them whilst you are in multitrack mode. Bounce it down to stereo and it will sound different with the preset on.