I had some of the problems you mention. I had a thread open recently and many people helped.
Here's how we reproduced some of the issues:
1. Start new project, use Normal template.
2. Delete the Preview bus. (probably the first thing most people do to save space)
3. Save the project.
4. Reopen and try preview some audio clips. Will not work because there is no Preview Bus selected, so select one (say, Master)
And now the weirdness starts.
Different people report different things, such as some clips not sounding, some starting in the middle of the clip, and even Sonar hanging when moving too fast between clips (as you report here). I even found if you close and reopen Sonar and this project, it will be different clips that misbehave.
scook jumped in to help and the solution is to select a Preview Bus (say Master) and save the project immediately, then reopen it. That worked several times now for me (which is not proof that it will work for everyone).
It seems the act of deleting the Preview bus throws Sonar's Media previewer into an undefined state. This undefined state persists in the project, not in Sonar itself.
You might like to try selecting a bus, then immediately saving and reopenening your project.
In future, when I start a new project, I will first select a different bus, save and reopen the project, and only then delete the Preview bus.
I have reported this to the Bakers (as have many people - but now, hopefully with scook's analysis, the Bakers will be able to reproduce it and fix it at last).