The ghost automation envelope on main track still goes dark green for me(Everett) - when track is not selected anymore.
So I have a workaround selecting custom clip colors to it so it remains to be easily spotted.
You mention "parent" are you working within track folders as well - or is it just what I call main track for take lanes or automation?
The issues I've had with unresponsive editing/selecting are as yours random - trying to narrow down when it occurs. Vague memory that I was changing screensets a bit - and will try that a bit again.
Behavior was confirmed at one time by Icontak as I recall mentioning this. You try to select clips by clicking on header and everything remains gray. would be good to track down and report if it can be repeated.