I think a lot of this depends on what type or general type of music you are making.
I have Superior drummer and EZ Drummer . Superior , i feel is better for metal and raw rock. Although if that's all that you had, you could make it work in any genre. That being said though, I find that "for me" Addictive is the most versatile when it comes to genre shifting and morphing, takes some tweaking outside the general presets, but 99% of the time it's what works for me.
On a side note, I find myself quite a few times using high hats from Sonar Session Drummer.
Experiment and find out what best works for you. Addictive Drums, I find, are the most versatile, although you might have to delve into some additional drum packs to get rounded out.