To the original question, you should be able to run X3 and Platinum side by side with share drivers enabled. That said, I notice you're running an Octacapture, and I have the same issue on my laptop using a Duo Capture EX, whereas sharing works fine on my desktop with the MOTU interface. So it may be that the Roland drivers just don't play nice with this.
As others have suggested, however, you can open two projects in the same instance of SONAR and Ctrl-tab between them instead Alt-tabbing, or even tile the windows and drag content from one to the other.
But, ultimately, I would suggest you use the forum and/or Cakewalk Tech Support to get to the bottom of why you can't open old projects and bundles in Platinum, and get them working normally.
The Inspector pane redraw thing has come up a few times. Back in X1 or X2, there was a problem with having the Inspector locked to a bus when the project was saved. You might want to check for that.