GregGraves
How do you find someone on your level and style to collaborate with? There's the question.
Listen to them!
Check out their music, when you find something that you can groove with, then start a conversation and listen to their thoughts and their goals... you can start to tell if your even on the same path as people and as artists.
If you've been jacking jaws with someone and can't find a link to listen to, just ask them and start at the other end of the snake first.
Then just do some small fun and lightweight project with little plans.... just a jam.
Plans can throw a wrench in the spokes pretty fast, so best to keep it simple
By then you'll have a good idea if the boots fit and you want to walk that road.
Just like offline with a lot more time and effort once you figure out a file share and communication system that works for everyone involved.
Edit: If there is a problem with having a special forum for "musicians wanted" and collaboration, I can donate one and set it up cool.