On your other point, maybe Cakewalk should designate one forum host to be the negativity police, that way we would accept admonitions more readily without undue commotion or causing too much angst because we would know it's their specific job/function, and that would allow the other forum hosts to engage more easily without the need to focus on warnings.
When I see that we are not readily excepting what the forum hosts are doing now , I would think that the one forum host for negativity wouldn't have a life anymore.
I think that we should except the forum hosts and all that they are trying to do so that we have a decent forum to come to and not have to fight our way through all the garbage.
We all have to learn how to confront the misunderstandings with a little more understanding.
Anyway, thats what I think.