X2 was released by Cakewalk owned by a different company, Roland, so you would have to take up your beef with them. They were screwing up with X1 and 2 and I'm sorry you took the bait. 8.5 was rock solid and those of us who stayed with it saved a bundle of money.
Cakewalk is now owned by Gibson and they have made huge improvements IMHO.
Like I said, try the demo then you'll know for sure.
The only other thing I could suggest is that Mackie's drivers might not ever work smoothly with any version of Sonar, You might want to post on the Hardware forum and ask:
Any x3 users with a Mackie Onyx 1604 w/ firewire ? On this forum your threads disappear to page 2 in a few hours because of the over abundance of threads about the new release. so it sucks. Real questions are not all getting answered right now. So the Hardware forum is a good alternative.
I'm sure there are other Mackie Onyx users here and it would be great if you could get feedback from them. I really doubt it's your actual computer, you sound like you have looked into the usual fixes.
Mackie makes good stuff, and Sonar is a great DAW again since X3e, so don't give up yet.