My understanding is that Sonar has no control over ASIO settings. Notice in the screen shot the adjustment for the buffers are grayed out in Sonar's Preferences. The ASIO panel is where changes must be made. However, the handshake may not work depending on how that panel works with various DAWs.
If it doesn't send the data to Sonar than Sonar can't update itself. This could be due to the need to adjust the hardware manually. Some interfaces use the software ASIO panel to reflect how the hardware is set. Not to actually set it. I think this is what Beepster is referring to when he talks about needing to cycle on the hardware in some units.
I know that it all depends on the architecture of the hardware and how well drivers are written for it as to the ease of using software to adjust its settings.
I would try a WDM driver for this unit and see if that clears up the problem.