What works best for this kinda situation is to drop the audio track into Sonar, then make your own metronome track.
Play along with the audio track on your midi controller ( V drum) just hitting quarter notes on anything, hi hat or rim shot.
Record it as MIDI.
Now mess with the tempo until it lines up as close as possible.
If the original audio track has a count in this is dead simple. Just line up those 4 beats to the grid.
Bounce that to audio.
Now use THAT track to extract the tempo with audio snap.
Audio snap works best with very strong simple transient audio.