Well, it seems like your system might be powerful enough - I think some additional info from you could help.
1. What is Driver Mode in Sonar? ASIO/WDM?
2. Do you have a Wi-Fi adapter on your desktop? If so, these frequently cause laptop folks to have big DPC Latency spikes, and those folks usually end up where just prior to launching Sonar they temporarily Disable the adapter in Device Manager, then launch Sonar, then when through with Sonar go back in and Enable the adapter.
3. Do the dropouts go away if you hit 'E' on your computer keyboard, which will toggle on/off 'bypass' of all loaded effects for a given project. If the dropouts go away after you test this, by bypassing the effects, then that means that one or more plugins loaded in that project are causing DPC latency spikes, and you can go through and figure out which one(s) need to be swapped out for different plugins. (hit 'E' again after testing the above out, to turn your effects back on).
Let's start with the above - I will keep an eye out for a reply from you with information on this subject.
Bob Bone