Session Drummer 3 shows up in both Live and Reaper.
You should be able use any of the VSTs that Sonar installs in the vstplugins folder without problems. You probably won't be able to use the Pro-Channel plugins unless they are also installed as regular VSTs (Overloud does this).
Live can only use a single plugin folder, I think Reaper can use multiple folders like Sonar. I have a few plugins that got installed in different locations (I probably clicked ok before looking at where they were getting put), I just made a separate VST64 folder that I copied everything to and point both Live and Reaper at that. Everything shows up and works fine in both DAWs.
Pro-Tools and Reason do not support VST but they do support ReWire so you can use your VSTis in both if you use Reaper as an intermediary. I could be wrong but my understanding is that if you want to use Reason as a rewire master you need to use the ReBirth Input Machine. You can also configure Reaper to act like an audio interface so you can even use effect plugins in addition to instruments.
So the answer is yes, you should be able to use any VST Sonar installs in virtually any DAW. You can't normally bitbridge 32 bit plugins into a 64 bit DAW (Sonar does that automatically) but if you install everything with the same bittyness (64/32), that shouldn't be a problem. Some DAWs may take a bit more fiddling to get them to work (Pro-Tools, Reason) but that's just a matter of wiring.
I'm sitting here playing with the OldZepKit in Live as we speak.