I don't mind when someone wants to have "his own tone" in Sonar, and certainly I would prefer a really good guitarist to bring his own gear rather than fiddle with amp sims to create the sound that he can dial in in seconds.
However, that doesn't seem to be the case here. Without knowing more background story, I can see one of two scenarios;
1. You are paying him for recording bass on YOUR project. In which case he needs to STFU and do what you're asking, or
2. He's paying YOU to make a recording of him on HIS project. In which case you can let him listen to the recording (with the rest of the band, preferably) and say that you don't think this sound is very workable. He can either agree and redo the recording, or he won't agree and you'll deliver a crap bass sound because that's what the client wanted.