OK, so I wasn't able to freeze the VSTi, either-- apparently the issue is that since this track has no MIDI clips on it (but is fed MIDI from another track), Sonar doesn't see it as a 'freezable' track.
BUT-- what I did (and don't know why I didn't think of this before), is set the VSTi track to record and record the incoming MIDI data as a MIDI clip. Now I should be able to just mute the MIDI track and Cthulhu MIDI VSTi track, and use the recorded MIDI on the ACE track instead.
It's still a workaround, though-- I could swear I've fed VSTi's with MIDI from other tracks before and not had this issue. And why audio from the VSTi (ACE) that is clearly passing through the Master bus isn't exported when you export the project audio just seems weird to me.
Anyway, thanks for your help, everyone, and if anyone has anything else to add, please share!
Bryan