Never been a problem for me with both XP and Windows 7 Ultimate - But that because I do it a little differently. I manually update the drivers and whatnot instead of letting Windows do it.
I do agree that up to date drivers are super important. Especially where the computer or it's components are newer than the install disk for the OS. Windows update will bring your machines drivers up to date. But I build my own and have all the latest drivers for that build stored on the data drives. In other words there's 2 ways to keep your computer running smoothly. Windows update might be the quickest and easiest for most, but for me it's a pain in the butt.
One, it's a hassle to move the DAW to a location were it can go on line. All our internet is via a wireless G4 smart hub and my DAW only has a LAN port.
Two, I live in a rural location and I pay $10 a GIG for bandwith.
All I'm missing with not running the updates is 3 Gigs of security fixes and having to pay $30 for something that I don't need. This just happened to me with the office computer which I installed W8.1, it was only $90 but the updates cost me almost $40.
So in that I agree with both of you that a lot of issues are fixed by keeping your drivers up to date. there is 2 ways to do this if your on the ball with your equipment.
And in the case of the OP he , like me, resolves his issues off line first.