batsbrew
once you realize that you can set up multiple mixes of what you hear, even multiple headphone mixes, and how to route the rme inputs to whatever, it gets easier.
This is exactly why I love Totalmix....now. And to be honest, I am experienced with mixing and routing and when I sat down and tried to just get Totalmix working, I was lost. I had to RTFM. Once I did, I realized what I had. And buddy, this is what I had been wanting a long time.
I also work alone and never thought I would need something like this. But after using it, I'll never go back to anything else. I am an RME'r for life now!!