I'm not familiar w/ any single-rack space channel strip that is great - all those components need space. But the double-rack sized Neve Portico II is a great investment if you have the cash. I haven't used the Shelford, but I imagine it sounds great, too. But the Portico has a lot of built-in features that make it a dream - and it sounds great. LP filter, EQ w/ built-in de-esser, feed back or forward comp and blend so you can do internal, analog parallel compression, variable Silk so you can add some in some saturation harmonics (Mr. Neve found that too much clean didn't work for many music engineers so came up "Silk"), etc.
The Aurora line (Geoff Tanner) is more old school Neve and a bit cheaper, if $2500 is ever cheap!
It is rumored that WARM audio is coming out w/ a pre/EQ based upon a famous vintage model soon. That should be about a $1000, if their price creep continues. For $2500 you could get that and their La2a and 1176 and you're ready to replicate the sound of the late 60s thru the 70s, although it would be many rack spaces.
You are right that sometimes it is hard to hear $2000 difference. I still listen to older recordings and say to myself, "jeez, that sounds good and I didn't have to spend this extra $5K and more (I'm not a guitarist so I can put my money into recording hardware not Gibson guitars ;-)) to get it. However, my go-to electric guitar sound is through the Portico and a sub-$100 MXL ribbon and it sounds nigh on perfect. I can't imagine it sounding any better. Something to think about w/ your similar mic, if not a 144.
2 things - the good (ie. expensive) stuff is hard to make sound bad - overdriven distortion when you least need it and such. The Portico runs on 54 volt rails, or something ridiculous like that. The other thing is if your sound coming out sounds bad - you know it is you not the equipment. If you can't get exactly what you want you just have to flog yourself to work harder, or change the source.