We found the same thing, hard to find good "real" comparisons. We don't really have time to play with many different DAWs, we want to spend our time making music. I'm sure we could make any of them work given enough time.
So we did a quick analysis for ourselves and picked Studio One. We use melodyne in almost every project, we don't use a lot of midi, we use VSTs. We are basically a band that records pretty much like the old days, recording to tape and producing what's recorded with FX and such. Here are the simple points that ruled out DAWs and why we came to the conclusion to give Studio One a try.
I'll probably get killed for posting this, but it was a few simple things that were important for us.
Mixcraft - No ARA support, which means seamless use of melodyne is difficult.
Mixbus and Mixbus 32c - No support for vst3. I know all the plugs come with vst2 versions, but the vst3 spec is much better and plugs run with less CPU and other resources if there is a vst3 version. It also "colors" the sound on purpose, incorporating the "harrison console" sound in their DAW. Some people really love this, but it's not something you can remove, it's just there.
Cubase - No ARA support
Reaper - No ARA support.
Reason - Not heard much good about this one. But they did recently add ARA.
Protools - Expensive and I just don't hear much good about it.
Studio One - Has ARA, supports vst3, and has a similar workflow to Sonar.
gabo