So Final update on this:
No problem installing the 32bit drivers for Windows XP
However,
The driver install failed with 3 different versions including the newest on Win7 64.
What got it fixed was telling Windows to find the driver at windows update.
That went smooth as silk on both Win7 64 partitions on this PC.
I didn't even attempt the nVidia software / driver install with an nVidia package on the second Win7 64 OS.
Just had Windows find it at Windows update and it was perfect.
I failed to mention, it's a Quad boot - 2 xp 32 OS and 2 Win7 64 OS on the same PC.
As to the digital cable, I just need to get a longer (10 foot) one. DVI-D to DVI-D.
My main monitor has DVI-D in and the secondary is VGA.
Tested the secondary on the DVI-I out of the card and it works.
I'm guessing the The DVI-D port won't drive an analog connection so I just have to swap
cables when the new one arrives.
Oh ... and it is "whisper quiet" and quieter than my old ATI x800XL.