It sounds like the best idea might be to hook up everything to a small mixer then use an output from that to drive your in-ears.
So your keys and anything else you use to create sound connect to mixer inputs. You can then use the mixer’s main outs and auxiliary sends to set up whatever mix you require for your personal monitors and to go to FOH.
For example.
All keys connect to line-ins on the mixer, the vocal effects to a channel with a mic pre. The send from the main foldback system is also connected to a mixer input.
You then use the mixer’s main outs to send to the FOH mixer and use the channel faders to set up that mix, leaving the fader for the channel that’s receving the foldback mix turned off.
One pre-fader aux channel is then used to set up your headphone mix which you tap from the relevant aux send on the mixer. Another aux send is used to send your keyboard mix to the foldback system seo everyone else can hear it.
There are other ways of routing that can be equally valid, and may work better. Such as your foldback mix coming off the mixer’s mains so you can use the mixer’s eq on it and the pre-fade aux sends being used to send signal to the FOH and monitor mixes.
I hope that’s clear, it’s one of the things that’s easiest to show using a diagram.
The whole setup is best sorted out during practices, obviously. As a final thought, having an eq on your personal monitor feed can be very useful as well as in-ear monitoring is subject to the same sorts of issues as any earbud and the eq may need tweaking to stop everything in the earbuds sounding too bright or too bass heavy.
And watch out for feedback. “Proper” in ears that effectively seal the ear canal are pretty resistant to feedback but it can still happen, especially if you’re using a mic. It’s not a pleasant experience. Also, the in-ear mix might be best done in mono. Stereo in-ears can work, but if you move around much then it can really upset your sense of balance if the sound-field doesn’t shift around the way your brain expects. Vocalists can be really susceptible to that problem.