here is a link to the third party products using kontakt 5/player that makes one eligible for the crossgrade price:
https://www.native-instru...arty-sample-libraries/ Maybe not the easiest list to go through as I dont see a 'search' function. I did find Sennheiser's DrumMic'A on the list, and indeed when I went through the checkout line, before committing to payment, there was a green check mark and a confirmatory message saying I was eligible. I will try to post a pic.
This will come up after you put Kontakt in the cart and as you start the checkout procedure, but before you have to pay. So this would be a way to confirm crossgrade coverage for something registered on NI's site.
It appears right now that the only way to checkout eligibility for a third party product before you would purchase it, is to check through the listing above.