In a way it's almost a pointless question on a forum. Go ask the same question on Gearslutz...ha ha..
One thing to walk into a real studios and see what they use, and another to ask a bunch of home studio users what they use. You'll get as many recommendations as there are people willing to answer. You could actually randomly get replies from people using terrible monitors. How will they know their monitors are terrible if that's the only ones they've ever used.
Look at pictures of the meter bridge of as many professional studios as you can. Look at the equipment list which they always post in their promo.