Unfortunately it does require a bit of an attention span at first. I know I've tossed a lot at you here but really focus on my first post. You can ignore the Harmonic and Melodic mode stuff until you learn the natural modes in sequence.
I HIGHLY recommend approaching this by studying what I wrote in my OP (particularly the sequence of the modes) then writing it out on chart paper (make your own notation staff, guit tab "staff" and fretboard charts with a ruler then filling them in) then comparing those to a scale book (such as the Hal Leonard Scale Finder I mentioned earlier but any good scale book that includes all modes will work) to confirm your work. Then pick up the guit and play it all in 1st position (Index finger at the first fret and using open strings whenever the mode/scale allows).
Start on C Major then work through the Circle of Fifths.
Here's a bit of a shortcut that may help...
Take your scale book and locate the "E" section. Learn all the modes (in the order I posted them in) from the low open E to the high open E (this covers two octaves of the mode being played). Really drill these patterns into your head until tthere's no shaking them loose. Jam out in the modes by droning on the appropriate E chord (so E Major for Major modes, E minor for minor modes and E diminished for the Locrian mode... I posted the chord qualites of the natural modes in series in one of my later posts if you are unsure).
Doing this will create 7 distinct patterns on the fretboard in first position. Pay attention to the two accessible notes we are not playing on the high E string as well (they will be the same notes played on the low E) so that when you start really manipulating these patterns/modes you don't get lost. I actually play these patterns up to the third note on the high E when practicing for that reason BUT leaving them off is better for getting used to the "moods" of each mode.
Once you know these 7 patterns in 1st position by heart lay out a Major scale "vertically" on your low E string from the open low E up to the 12th fret (which is of course your octave). Just for clarity here are those notes...
0 (open) = E
2nd fret = F#
4th fret = G#
5th fret = A
7th fret = B
9th fret = C#
11th fret = D#
12th fret = E (8ve)
Now take those 7 modal patterns you've learned in 1st position and lay them out on to the fretboard sequentially starting each pattern in those positions. Do not (for now) play any notes "lower" (closer to the Nut) than the starting note. Some of these patterns are tricky outside of 1st position but are great exercises and reveal exactly how the modes "stack" to create a grid on the fretboard (CAGED theory actually draws from this concept but I find it a really incomplete way of teaching/describing the full range of modal theory).
So that will look like this and what the hell I'll include the chord qualities again for your convenience...
0 (open) = E = Ionian (Major) = EMaj
2nd fret = F# = Dorian = F#min
4th fret = G# = Lydian = G#min
5th fret = A= Lydian = AMaj
7th fret = B = Mixolydian = BMaj
9th fret = C# = Aeolian (Nat minor) = C#min
11th fret = D# = Locrian = D#dim
12th fret = E (8ve) = Ionian again and you can repeat the entire pattern/sequence above the 12th fret from here.
You have now mapped the entire fretboard for the key of E Major.
This pattern is unbreakable (as long as you are playing in the natural modes). You can apply this pattern to ANY key by simply choosing a root note, finding it on your low E string and starting the pattern from that fret instead of the open E. Once you run out of notes before hitting the 12th fret play the next pattern as close to the nut as you can (they will either start on the open low E or on the 1st fret... no exceptions).
By doing this you are getting a fastrack to being able to play every mode into every key by just using that simple trick. HOWEVER every single mode and every single key can be performed in ANY of those seven patterns by just a) choosing the correct position and b) changing the starting point within the pattern... which is probably a little brain bendy without actually doing it soo don't worry about that just yet but it should become apparent once you start working through all the keys in 1st position which is the proper, non lazy way (but more complicated) to approach this.
Hopefully I didn't screw any of that up. I have reams of Notepad docs and a half finished website detailing all of this but I'm not ready to start digging all that up at this moment.
At some point I intend to offer customized lessons over the intertubes for guit players. Gotta get some other crap finished first though (like FINALLY finishing/releasing my old band's album which is just about ready and sounding pretty slick... or so my bandmates said).
Cheers.